


Horses are masters of nonverbal communication. Horses are prey animals who automatically recognize us (humans) as the predators we are. It is in their genetic makeup and it is their survival tool to pick up our intentions from very far away. In fact, a horse's life depends on that ability: to read us quickly to see if we look, smell, and act like the predator we may be.
If we can step into his hooves, so to speak, we can begin to understand him better and work with him on our communication skills. When we put forth the effort to help him feel safe in our presence, when he begins to trust us, that's when he becomes a wanting participant, then we are invited to join him on a journey of curiosity and playfulness...a journey that will take us places we might not ever visit otherwise.
Horses sense and respond to a person’s intentions, emotions and thoughts that are conveyed through body language. By observing a horse’s response to their requests and directions, we learn how to communicate more effectively, face fears and manage emotions, and become more congruent and authentic in our expression because otherwise our equine partner will let us know.
The
horse becomes a mirror for our behaviors, conscious and subconscious.
He becomes a projection screen of our desires and undiscovered/un-lived
personality parts.
As Linda Parelli (wife of Pat Parelli, creator of the Parelli Method) says, "It's more than just about the horse. It really dips into the personal development side of things. You learn about yourself, you learn about communication, about leadership, about truthfulness, about consequence and responsibility. You learn about love and imagination. The horse becomes the animal that tells you the truth about yourself in all these categories."